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02
Jan
2016

Why I say: #WaterYourSeeds

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Why I say: #WaterYourSeeds In 2010 I got 2 women pregnant... LIKE US ON FACEBOOK Ain't gonna lie, shit was hard... My lady left me... Child support was killing me... I had to send my daughter Winter to live with her mama... I had to live in my truck and sleep in Wal-Mart parking lots an entire winter... Still, I…

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Black Dads smile too!
10
Nov
2015

Black Dads: We do exist

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Black Dads: We do exist [caption id="attachment_368" align="aligncenter" width="640"] Black Dads smile too![/caption] I was thinking about the #MillionManMarch that just took place in Washington, DC and I was saddened by the media blackout of the event.  Here you had a powerful, impactful event that highlighted black unity, love and most notably: BLACK MEN STANDING UP AND BEING MEN LIKE…

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alicia and Wyatt HavMire
14
Jul
2015

Step mom #TheHavMires

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Step mom #TheHavMires These 2 right here... Yesterday, I celebrated my 2nd son's 4th birthday. I now have two 4 year olds. You know, I never hide from the fact that i have multiple kids by multiple women. I'm not happy about it but I'm not ashamed. Still, the circumstances surrounding my middle boy (seen in the pic) coming into…

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03
Jun
2015

Women trying to raise Stallions from Donkeys

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Women trying to raise Stallions from Donkeys We pass on much more than physical attributes to our seeds. I often use the analogy of gardening (as in my website WaterYourSeeds) where the man is the Gardener, the woman is the Soil and the child is the Seeds. [caption id="attachment_345" align="aligncenter" width="600"] A pack of asses...[/caption] The Gardener plants the apple…

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Hopefully, *THIS* isn't your situation...
18
Mar
2015

Dealing with Multiple Baby Mamas: Part 2

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Dealing with Multiple Baby Mamas: Part 2 PLEASE READ PART 1 *FIRST* Be Fair to All Don't just be a good father to the kids in the nuclear home you have.  You made this situation.  Deal with it like a man.  Don't hide your satelite kids.  Don't neglect them.  Don't have an "out of sight, out of mind" mentality with…

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MULTIPLE BABY MAMAS
18
Mar
2015

Dealing with Multiple Baby Mamas: Part 1

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Dealing with Multiple Baby Mamas: Part 1 First of all, I gotta say it: If you can have ALL YOUR KIDS by *ONE WOMAN* that is the idea situation! For the ladies, if you can have ALL YOUR KIDS by *ONE MAN* that is the idea situation! This series of post are not to encourage men to sow seeds all…

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Winter HavMire
05
Jan
2015

#GardeningTips4Dads: Fathers! Validate your daughters!

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#GardeningTips4Dads: Fathers!  Validate your daughters! *Sigh...* This one is hard for me... I am a father of a beautiful daughter and I look at her and see so much potential for greatness.  I see a queen... I see a model... I see a Lady... My daughter is my little lady in training and all I want for her is the…

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raising strong black men
05
Jan
2015

Raising Boys: The Father’s challenge of raising men *PART ONE*

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Raising Boys: The Father's challenge of raising men As a father who has multiple sons in multiple homes (Okay, it's 2 homes but that's still multiple), I'm faced with the challenge of teaching them how to be quality men who are not castrated, weak or EuroNegroes (Euro-negroes are defined as "black men who are black physically yet operating with European…

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22
Nov
2014

Video Poem: Lil Brown Boy

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Video Poem: Lil Brown Boy LIKE US ON FACEBOOK Little Brown Boy Little Brown Boy one day you'll be Strong Black Man... With hands like your father's and shoulders... strong enough to carry a people... Greatness is what I see when I see you doing my best to shield you from evil but that's all I can do is shield,…

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Deadbeat Dads Talk
18
Nov
2014

Deadbeat conversations: part one

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Deadbeat conversations: part one I know deadbeat dad is the default definition of a man who is not active in his child(ren)'s lives but a lot of men resent that label.  Especially if -in there mind- they are doing everything in their power to be an active dad. I would argue that as many men that you think make excuses…

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