It’s so hard to water seeds in multiple gardens but it’s a necessary task, no matter how difficult.
Y’all know my motto:
Once you have kids, you’re life ain’t about YOUanymore…
with that said, these 4 being close as adults is priority number 1(^;
I look at it like this: We made our bed’s as men, we have to lay in them. But… ain’t no point of moping with the cover over our faces, right? You guys would be surprised at how many people expect me to rollover and die because of the number of kids I have (and the number of women I have them by). I’m, like, the king of “making lemonade out of lemons”. Never will I be ashamed of the kids I created. Even if I’m ashamed of my actions, I can’t be ashamed of the end results. How could I? I love the end results!
As men with multiple children in multiple homes, we must learn to spread our love around accordingly. Sometimes, this is difficult due to the relationships with the mothers who we have said children by. You can literally be Jesus the Christ and your baby mama will swear you aint sh*t.
“So what you walkin on water! When I prayed to you for diapers and milk, where was yo a** then!?” – b.mama
What’s important is that your children see you doing EVERYTHING in your power to be in their lives and eventually, things will go your way. That lemonade you been churning out will be so sweet(^;